Relationship Help | Relationships Blog Relationships Blog Fear Of Commitment Friday, June 12th, 2009

In my counseling work, I often work with clients who have a deep fear of commitment. These individuals generally say that they want to be in a loving relationship, yet they keep picking “the wrong people.”
Susan, 38, sought my help because she was in two relationships at the same time. This didn’t feel right to [...]

Are You Sucking the Passion Out of Your Relationships? Friday, May 29th, 2009

If you are a Lover, your passion is connection, the intimacy of giving and receiving. Whether you are sharing your gifts and talents with the world at large, or you are having a one-on-one love relationship, marital relationship, friendship, a family member, or a relationship with a co-worker, you enjoy fusing your essential being with [...]

Seeking Love through Matchmaking for Marriage Relationships (I) Sunday, May 17th, 2009

Revival of traditional matchmaking service
Nowadays, communication has never been so fast; meeting people has never
been so easy, but more and more people are looking for and using some kind of matchmaking service &ndash online or offline.
We all see the revival of the millennium-old traditional matchmaking service industry. People looking for matchmaking service are serious love [...]

5 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them Friday, March 27th, 2009

As a relationship counselor, I am constantly being asked why so many relationships fail. In the 37 years that I have worked with couples, I have discovered five major relationship killers:
CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR
Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into [...]

What You Say, What People Hear Friday, January 30th, 2009

Communication between partners often gets confusing, and there is a very good reason for this. Most of the time, the words we use have far less impact than the energy behind the words. Therefore, what you say is often not what the other person hears.
The energy behind a communication is determined by our INTENTION. In [...]

I Wednesday, January 21st, 2009

“I’ve waited so long for love to come into my life, yet now that it’s here, I’m depressed. I can’t figure this out,” complained Elayne in one of our phone counseling sessions. “Todd is really terrific. He’s all I’ve been wanting in a man &ndash open, caring, and emotionally available. I really think there is [...]

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